The biggest mistake new CFII candidates make is treating the checkride as "fly instrument approaches, but better." Your flying ability is assumed. The Instrument Flight Instructor ACS (FAA-S-ACS-8) evaluates whether you can teach instrument flying and manage risk while a less-capable pilot is at the controls.
The Aviation Instructor's Handbook (FAA-H-8083-9) describes four levels: Rote, Understanding, Application, Correlation. An instrument student who can recite the steps of a missed approach (rote) is not safe. Your goal is correlation — the student associates a low approach light, a deteriorating scan, and fuel state into a decision. Design every lesson to push toward correlation, not memorization.
When you demonstrate a maneuver for instructional purposes, you fly it to commercial/instructor ACS standards — tighter than the instrument-rating applicant. A bank within 100 feet of an assigned altitude is acceptable for a private student; your demonstration of a holding pattern should be visibly precise because it is the model.